Like many two-year olds, Kaitlyn's favorite word these days is "No!"
Me: Kaitlyn, let's put on some pants.
Kaitlyn: NO! I want to wear shorts! (
even though it's 40 degrees outside)Me: What do you want for breakfast?
K: No.
Me: Let's sing a song. How about Twinkle, Twinkle?
K: No, no, no, no, no, no, no mommy! I sing it all by myself!
Me: What book do you want to read before nap?
K: (
silence as she ignores me while playing with her toys)Me: How about Dora's Perfect Pumpkin?
K: No, Mommy! I not read that one!
Me: OK, well pick out one.
K: (
She selects Dora's Perfect Pumpkin)Me: What a great choice! I wish I had thought of that!
Sometimes her contrariness can work to my advantage. On the way to preschool, a car almost pulled out right in front on me, and I honked my horn a couple of times. I hear giggles from the backseat followed by, "Beep, beep!" And then she kept saying it over and over. And over. After about 30 or so repetitions, I was ready for a change. So I tried a few different methods to get her to stop saying "Beep, beep!"
Me:
(Method 1: distraction) Hey Kaitlyn, look! There's a school bus!
K: Beep, beep!
Me:
(Method 2: direct order) OK, Kaitlyn, that's enough beeping. Please stop now.
K: Beep, beep!
Me:
(Method 3: ignoring the annoying behavior)
K: Beep, beep! Beep, beep!
Me:
(Method 4: Reverse Psychology) Kaitlyn, I think it's really cute when you say "Beep, beep!" I want you to keep saying it all the way to preschool. Can you do that for mommy?
K:
(solemnly nodding--she likes to be a helper almost as much as she likes saying no). Beep, beep!
Me: Great job! Keep it up!
K: Beep, beep! Beep, beep!
Me: Wonderful! Say it some more!
K:
(much less enthusiastically) Beep, beep. (
Followed by silence)Me: Kaitlyn, come on! Keep saying "Beep, beep!"
K: No, mommy! I not want to say "Beep, beep!" anymore!
Ah, mission accomplished! I am still smarter than a 2-year old...well, at least some of the time!